As the title says, how we ended up having fetishes? Is is psychological/physiological/subconscious thing?
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(Pretend you’re five) (I’m an adult explaining)
“Well a long long time ago, there was no internet, no mobile phones, no computers, no exposure to different philosophies (I shouldn’t say “no exposure” as alternative lifestyles and promiscuity totally happened but were taboo and kept secret.) NO PRIVACY. So if you were the type of person who couldn’t find pleasure in the intimate practices your family, friends, coworkers, (pretty much everyone in your entire world) , expected of you- an emptiness forms inside you…. usually the first available alternative experience of intimate pleasure does the trick to fill that emptiness. And this happens to lots of other people too and as communication and society advanced, here we are today with furries and dominatrix. Maybe one day they won’t be viewed as fetish, a lot of acts people do today used to be considered fetish but are now celebrated as something else….but I digress, i don’t want to bore you with politics. And then there are those who think they have fetish but are actually just really wanting to fit in somewhere and are enamoured by the experience. There’s my 2cents on the subject. ✌️
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