As the title says, how we ended up having fetishes? Is is psychological/physiological/subconscious thing?
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Sexual attraction is weird and poorly understood and so what causes something to be a turn-on to someone is a mystery. You’ll get various theories, sex negative people tend to say it’s just trauma and our brains take what scares us and makes it horny, which may happen sometimes but truthfully most people aren’t traumatized by butts or boobs or anime characters. Generally the only difference between ‘normal horny thing’ and ‘kink’ is cultural, like how a lot of cultures think cultures that have a normalized kissing kink are disgusting and weird.
Basically our brains are chemical goo full of electricity and “This makes me scared” “This makes me disgusted” “This makes me happy” “This makes me horny” are part nature, part nurture, mysterious and unpredictable.
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