Think of it as every element wants to be a like a “noble gas”(those elements in the far right hand column of a chemistry table.) and have a full outer electron shell. The unpaired electrons correspond to how far away from that column that particular element is. So for example, carbon is 4 steps away from its nearest noble gas, or full shell, it has 4 unpaired elections. In order to get there it needs to borrow electrons from somewhere.
The somewhere is the element(s) that it bonds with to get up to that “gas”/full shell. In this case neon. The borrow is more like a share cause the other element also wants to get to a full shell and is not going to completely give up electrons.
Note: I am not a chemistry major, and I am drawing on as best I remember from HS & gen Ed chemistry class in college.
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