The graviton is supposed to be the particle that makes gravity work in quantum field theory. It hasn’t been proven to exist, but there is no better explanation of how gravity works for quantum mechanics. General relativity is really good at explaining how gravity works on every scale except quantum and is inherently incompatible with quantum field theory.
The graviton is theorized because the other 3 fundamental forces (electromagnetic, weak nuclear, and strong nuclear) have particles associated with how matter “communicates” those forces across space. In order for the electromagnetic force to happen, a photon has to go from one place to another. For the Weak force, W^+ W^- or Z^0 bosons need to move from one place to another. For the Strong force (which holds quarks together to make Hadrons (baryons and mesons) and holds atomic nuclei together) gluons need to move from one place to another. So far quantum theory has shown symmetry for all of the particles in we know of, so why would gravity be left out?
So far, this symmetry has held up very well, we knew about up(+), down(-), and strange(-) quarks, and the strange quark was called that because why was there this extra negative quark, but no positive one. Then we found the charm(+) quark, named so.because it was charming, it restored symmetry. But then if we look at the leptons, there electrons and neutrinos, and each has 3 forms, electron, muon, and tau. Why do leptons get 3 forms, but quarks only get 2? So then they theorized 2 more quarks, top(+) and bottom(-), and now there are 3 types of each quark, and 3 types of each lepton, and there is symmetry. We also know it stops there because to create anything higher up on the list would take more energy than the universe has.
Now, all forces in the universe act at the speed of light. Before it was known as the speed of light, it was called the speed of causality, which is why we use c to denote it. It was proven that it was the fastest anything could affect another thing. And this was first shown with light, which us just an electromagnetic wave, so it must move as fast as things can be affected electromagnetically. Im not sure how we proved it with the other 2 forces, but with gravity, it was theorized by Einstein with general relativity suggesting the existence of gravitational waves traveling at the speed of light, which we just proved existed a few years ago and do infact travel at c. If we could prove the existence of the graviton, it would confirm what we know about quantum field theory and offer us a bridge to connect it to general relativity, and bring us closer to a grand unified theory. If we can disprove the existence of the graviton, then either everything we know about gravity is wrong (highly unlikely) or most of quantum field theory would need to be rewritten (slightly less highly unlikely).
Now, you may have heard of the Higgs Boson, which is necessary to give particles mass, but this doesn’t necessitate gravity, this is just for inertial mass. For most things, inertial mass and gravitational mass are the same thing, but light has inertia, while having no mass, so there are exceptions that we haven’t figured out. Another possible exception is the electron neutrino, which we know has inertia (otherwise it never would have been discovered) but we don’t know if it has mass or not (we do have an upper limit on how much mass it has) and we’re not even sure if it travels at the speed of light or not as a result.
Fun fact: one of the proposed names for the top and bottom quarks was truth and beauty, but it was rejected by the naming committee.
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