“Co-dependency” is used to describe someone in a dysfunctional relationship who enables an abuser. Thus, one partner is dependent on drugs, alcohol, or some other addictive behavior. The enabler becomes a co-dependent even if not addicted to the same behavior.
The co-dependent has good intentions. He or she tries to take care of a person who is experiencing difficulty, but the caretaking becomes compulsive and defeating. The co-dependent thinks of him or herself as a martyr, but enables the abuser while pretending that there’s nothing wrong. Neither partner is well served by the relationship.
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