How come it takes till their 30s sometimes for someone to know their LGBT?
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If I were to take every signal that I could have recognised over the years and out them into one bundle, you would wonder how I could ever have not known.
But I had an existing lens that I was cis het, and every one of those signals was viewed in isolation through that lens. Because they were isolated, every difference could be absorbed into that self-understanding.
It’s taken a long time.
I’m not speaking for anyone else here, but that’s my experience.
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