You have lots of experiences throughout life which leave different imprints on your brain, especially during formative years.
Some will have a connection to sexual drives either directly (you see/do something you like, want to repeat it) others by way of a mutation. Usually from an experience or memory that had started out as something unrelated, but at some point been recalled via a sexual experience, and the two then develop embryonically together as they coexist in your brain, becoming a kink or fetish.
That’s my take anyway.
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