How do sexual kinks/fetishes develop?
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I read an account from a guy who got off on having bugs crawling on him. He said that he remembered the first time it happened, he had a pet ant colony and some of them were out of the habitat and crawling on his legs when he popped his first ever boner. He’s had a thing for bugs ever since.
It can also be habituation. There have been studies of men being treated for porn use disorder. Young men whose first experience of intensely sexual imagery came in early adolescence (11-12 yrs), can only achieve gratification by watching extreme porn videos, and are only attracted to women dressed and made up in stereotypical porn styles, big hair, big chest, caked on makeup, thigh boots etc.
The rise of internet porn in the past twenty some years has produced an uptick in men seeking treatment because their fetish has torpedoed what few real relationships they’ve attempted. They literally can’t get it up without their habitual mode of stimulation.
This is the definition of a fetish.
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