How does autism work? People I met with it seem totally self aware and normal
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I work in residential care for autistic kids considered too challenging to remain in their family home.
My partner’s understanding of autistic people is that they’re a bit quirky, say funny things, struggle with social awkwardness, have obsessive hobbies and lack empathy. Although this is true for many, that’s just the positive examples that you see on TV.
The kids I work with in many cases have really complex issues. Many are non verbal, incontinent, cannot manage their emotions, can be volatile, aggressive, self injurious and completely incapable of making self care decisions not to mention a long list of associated physical and mental health issues. I have to help them wash, dress, eat and toilet and they will probably need this kind of care throughout their lives.
I have worked with young people who have been permanently on 1to1, 2to1 and sometimes 3to1 supervision all day every day.
Yes, it is a spectrum, but it’s very broad. It’s great that society is beginning to accept and understand autism but remember it’s not just about people with slightly different personalities navigating the world and occasionally making a faux pas. It’s not just the exploitative dating shows you see on UK television. There are people and their families out there really struggling with challenging and aggressive behaviour and not getting the help they need.
Thank you.
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