My girlfriend and I talked about sex last night and she told me that virginity is only a myth which refers to whether you have done it or not. She explains that it is only just an idea and it wouldn’t be possible to determine physically whether a woman had intercourse or not. The reason is that the hymen heals back and the vagina comes back to its natural shape even though it’s gone through intercourse or like giving birth.Some articles say to that hymen looks and has different forms in which it depends for every person. I can’t find anything on the net (or I just suck at finding) articles about how doing it for the first time vs second time would make a difference. I know that at the end of the day, it’s whether you both enjoyed it and did it with the person you wanted the most. But I am curious whether there would be a difference between doing it the first time and the second time, excluding the fact that the second time you know how to perform better and have the knowledge of what to do, unlike before.
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Virginity isn’t a myth in the sense that it’s a word to describe people who haven’t had sex. But it’s association with women’s “purity” is traditionally… repressive. Nor can one examine a hymen to know if someone is a virgin or not.
However, that’s not because it grows back. It doesn’t. But different women have different amounts of tissue, so it can cover a larger or smaller area. It then normally stretches out or thins during sex. Or riding a bike. Or using a tampon. Or any number of other activities, which is why it’s a shitty metric for virginity.
As for the vagina, it’s an elastic organ, so activity doesn’t change it. The myth of women getting “loose” from having sex is just that.
As for whether they’re a difference between the first or second time… not really? Excepting being better at it and thus able to enjoy it more.
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