What does it mean to be antisocial, and how does it differ from simply being shy or introverted?
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You’re getting some incomplete and potentially misleading answers here (so far), OP.
There’s a dictionary definition … and then there’s a psychological/medical definition.
The dictionary definition is basically “unsociable” or “doesn’t like to socialize” (which is what most other people mentioned).
However, “antisocial” has a specific meaning in psychology and it’s *definitely* _**not**_ “doesn’t like to socialize” or “avoids social situations.”
In the field of psychology, “antisocial personality disorder” (ASPD) is the modern diagnosis used for someone that, in the past, would have been called a sociopath or a psychopath.
(Side note: While the terms “sociopathy” and “psychopathy” were used in the 19th century and early 20th century and have entered the common lexicon, especially in criminal justice, in modern psychology these are never terms or diagnoses that have been included in the *Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders* (DSM) or the *International Classification of Diseases* (ICD), the two diagnostic manuals for mental health.)
ASPD is characterized by a lack of empathy, difficulty maintaining relationships, lack of regard for or understanding of right and wrong, and — most importantly — a lack of respect or regard for the rights of others … sometimes down to and including their right *to exist*. Which is why many serial killers are diagnosed with ASPD . . . though not everyone with ASPD automatically becomes a serial killer, by any means.
So. Context matters here.
Your buddy calling you antisocial? He’s probably pissed you didn’t show up at his party on Friday night.
Your physician or therapist concerned that you are displaying antisocial behaviors? *Very* different concern!
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