Actually warm it’s not really a part of it.
In the womb the baby is connected to the mothers circulatory system and nervous system. The baby can taste what she’s tasting that’s why sometimes women will have cravings for things because the baby has a craving. It’s a weird concept but it’s something every mother can understand as the craving comes from some other than themselves.
The baby can also feel what she’s feeling and be affected by her health and nutrition.
Skin on skin contact is a lesser version of that connection the baby feeling their mother’s warmth yes but also feeling and hearing her heartbeat and breathing.
There have been many times documented where the baby is having trouble breathing or their heart rate is just slightly wrong and putting the baby on the mother’s chest right above her lungs and right above her heart they will synchronize. Making the baby’s heart stronger and more regular as well as improving their breathing.
This can also be done with twins. I have a friend who had a sickly twin, they were placed in the same crib together because my friend’s heartbeat and breathing was normal but her sisters was weak and labored. A few hours of them being together cuddled up and her sister’s heartbeat and breathing had corrected itself.
Additionally having the child on her chest releases bring chemicals calming both mother and child so they can kind of synchronize in this way it also creates a pheromone connection. You can see this in the father as well the moment they’re holding the child and the child is holding them there can be this switch turned on where the similar DNA recognize each other and creates that mental Bond of parent to child. Mind you the mother has been feeling that Bond for many months.
They say men can do this too. So when we were getting close to my son being born, I bought a bunch of shirts that unbutton down the front, and we took turns doing skin-to-skin with him, and then me and my wife did some skin-to-skin. So a couple of years later, we did the same thing with our daughter. .
Harlow did a famous study that related to mother/baby physical contact
[Here’s a super condensed explanation of it and why it’s important](https://youtu.be/RC0L_llyAz4?si=uJR-bn4XQlV4tCP-)
There’s more videos that go further into it but surprise/TW, experiments during this time weren’t super ethical so although experiments like this would never happen today, it laid the groundwork for modern research into developmental psychology
Having a newborn suddenly appear in your life is incredibly stressful, even if there are two parents working together. Skin-to-skin contact helps everyone destress and bond. It’s just as important for the parent that didn’t give birth to build that skin-to-skin bond, and it’s especially important for the mother if she is breastfeeding. The newborn may be eating as often as every two hours(including at night) which makes it pretty hard for the mom to get a good night’s sleep.
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