We were never there to impose our culture or our religion, we were there to make money, as others have said.
Also, the decolonization process wasn’t a gentle one. People in Indonesia probably call it a liberty war, like the one the USA had. And they wouldn’t be wrong. (Which is, until this day, not a popular opinion in The Netherlands. Though if you found me a dutch historian who diasgreed, you’ve probably found one with otherwise suspect opinions)
Many of the most dutch-aligned people in the conflict came here after we lost. Amd the new Indonesian government did a fair bit of stomping out dutch influences as well. Twenty years ago, you’d have found many more dutch-speaking people there, although most of them were old by then too. Now most of them have just died off.
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