Why can you objectively know someone is attractive but only certain people give you that “zing” feeling of desire/crush/etc?
In: Biology
I think the easiest way to explain this is men and big boobs. Some men LOVE big boobs, some men NEED big boobs. Other men, not so much. So the thing that twings you to another person isn’t the same thing that twings someone else. You have to understand, attraction is an individual thing. I’m not saying attractions and similar attractions aren’t common, but they don’t build the entirety of attraction.
There’s this girl I have a huge crush on strictly physically. It’s almost non sexual really because I just think she’s gorgeous while not really thinking about banging her. Her personality is basically that of a bag of rocks though. There’s like zero substance yet still I’m obsessed.
Attraction itself isnt just caused by how beautiful someone is. Things like personality and behaviour play a role too. And your own attitude towards the person, something that can change depending on how often you see the other and how physically close you are . Besides that people also tend to be more attracted to people similar to themselves.
So knowing someone is objectively attractive is just something you know. You may start feeling as soon as some sort of relation begins
What kind of person is it for u?
I’m moderately attractive, certainly I can tell 1000 pretty women, but I only like lookalike women, that have similar physical traits such as white skin, black hair, big eyes big mouth, Id never like a blonde or a redhead or a Chinese or black woman for the matter, even if they’re pretty, it’s about instinct sometimes you cant mess with it.
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