I used to make bulletproof windows, similar situation. You need to absorb a lot of energy in a very small area. Hard surfaces aren’t great at absorbing energy but are great at spreading it. Soft materials like vinyl (used in windows) deform and absorb energy, but don’t spread it well (and they puncture). Ideally you use both, and in a window you layer the hard and soft spreading and absorbing energy layer by layer.
I suspect kevlar would be better able to absorb energy, but steel better to spread it. Perhaps a combination of both would be better than either alone.
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