I think many answers here are misunderstanding the underlying cognitive dissonance created by a model that depends on gravity, the very thing trying to be understood, to explain the 2D model’s function. Why do marbles roll down the depression on the 2D sheet created by the heavy object? Because of gravity? And before you give me a snarky answer, many science writers and even physicist have said, this kind of model, isn’t always useful. The better the model gets you to an understanding of gravity the worse the model becomes
The truth is, gravity is very hard to understand and all models fail in one way or another.
https://youtu.be/wrwgIjBUYVc?si=WxdExwJiqVZWm3ct addresses this problem better than I can, and comes up with a much better visualisation. Less curved sheet, more seeing the curvature of space-time as a flow.
The curvature of space-time by mass causes “straight” lines to get bent slightly out of the time dimension into a spacial one, causing objects to fall toward the mass. The acceleration in space comes with a slight slow down in how fast you’re moving through time, which is a real measured effect.
Bending a 2d plane forms a 3d shape. Similarly, bending a 3d plane, such as the one we appear to live in, forms a 4d shape.
But it’s quite a challenge to draw a 4d shape, and even more of a challenge to understand what it is you’re looking at. For now at least, 2d > 3d illustrations will have to do.
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