Why is it easier to focus on things that we don’t have to do (like watching YT, TV shows, movies etc.) rather than things we “must” (for example studying, working out, going to job, finishing project and so on) ?

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Why is it easier to focus on things that we don’t have to do (like watching YT, TV shows, movies etc.) rather than things we “must” (for example studying, working out, going to job, finishing project and so on) ?

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Anonymous 0 Comments

I think that has many reasons. For one the things you mentioned all usually don’t require much focus in the first place. Like unless you somehow work with the music, seriously try to learn something from youtube videos or try to analyze tv shows you’re usually just there ignoring most of what isn’t part of that satisfaction you’re after.

That’s the second point, studying, working out or doing some job usually require actual focus without bringing immediate satisfaction. So while watching a tv show provides some “value” (as in hormone response) without much work, actual work has quite little “return on investment”.

Thirdly it depends on your interests. I for instance have a hard time studying but at the same time I can easily work for hours on end, even in my private time, on projects related to my student job. Why? Well because the process of studying often involves a lot of work without any results while my job, software engineering, is fun to me and provides immediate results (even though not necessarily positive).

Anonymous 0 Comments

Dopamine. Dopamine is a chemical in the brain that’s part of the reward mechanism that’s evolved to entice us to do things. When we get a good grade, a job promotion or someone compliments us on how buff our bodies are, the brain gives itself a hit of dopamine. However, the actions themselves we take to get that good grade, promotion or hot bod don’t usually provide that dopamine hit.

YT, TV, games, FB, etc. are specifically designed to provide a hit as you use them. The same with sex, drugs, gambling, etc. These are generally called “immediate gratification” activities. That is when you do them, you get an immediate dopamine hit. The temptation to do an immediate gratification activity can be overwhelming over a delayed gratification activity.

Anonymous 0 Comments

Things which don’t need focus generally don’t add much value in the long term.

Things we “must do” do add value, and these things need more focus and attention than watching tv.

Anonymous 0 Comments

Humans are super bad at delaying gratification. We want that dopamine hit, and we want it now, even if it means less (or even pain) later.

Anonymous 0 Comments

why is it easier to do fun things is what you’re asking? Cause they’re fun.

Anonymous 0 Comments

the short and quick answer would be “because it makes you happy, thus your brain tells you to do it / keep doing it”

Anonymous 0 Comments

The function of Intent and motivation is linked to limbic intrinsic as well as adrenal ligand up regulation

Anonymous 0 Comments

Basically humans are as simple as dogs. If we don’t get the reward right away we have a hard time learning the trick. 🤣