Eli5 What exactly is “building character”?

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Eli5 What exactly is “building character”?

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“Character” in this context refers to virtues: courage, patience, diligence, etc.

A lot of these virtues can be acquired through practice. Something that’s scary/frustrating/difficult/etc. the first time you do it will be less scary/etc. future times you do it.

So an experience that “builds character” is one that gives you practice exercising virtues, making you a better person. Theoretically.

Kind of a “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” idea, except for emotions rather than muscles.