RF engineer here.
The answers you’re given in this theead kind of miss the point. I was in your shoes for a very long time, even after I finished my degree, since this is a very unintuitive concept. However, an answer on Physics Stack Exchange really helped my understanding:
https://physics.stackexchange.com/questions/125903/why-does-wavelength-affect-diffraction
Hope this helps! I’ll be glad to explain further if you have anything to ask about this link.
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