Your finger will also stick when it’s dry.. just needs some time..
The heat of your finger melts the first layer of ice.. but the ice is cold enough to freeze that layer again, so your finger starts sticking.. same with the tongue.. and you got to remember, that the metal pole will get way cooler than 0 degrees Celsius.. so it is a lot faster..
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Quicksearch in YouTube gave me this
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