Say someone suffers a fear of abandonment— why is this fear so much stronger in a romantic relationship than say… a friendship?
Conversely, why are we so willing to go to the “ends of the earth” for our lovers, but not our friends?
What is it about romantic relationships that make us want to be our best self and also reveal our worst selves?
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