why is there a disconnect between what we’re trying to say vs what actually comes out of our mouth. Especially when public speaking

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why is there a disconnect between what we’re trying to say vs what actually comes out of our mouth. Especially when public speaking

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Only guessing, but i would say that we think about what we want so say and not how we say it. We dthink about the message, not the words…